How to kindle a bonfire in Dark Souls: humanity and extra Estus
Turn humanity into a permanent bonfire upgrade and understand why using the item alone does not make you human.
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How do you kindle a bonfire?

Rest at the bonfire, reverse hollowing if necessary, then choose Kindle. Each action spends one point from the humanity counter. Starting hollow with an empty counter therefore takes two humanity points for the first kindling: one to become human and one to kindle. Using an inventory Humanity item only adds a counter point; it does not perform either bonfire action.
Know what death can remove
Unused Humanity items stay in your inventory when you die. Humanity already added to the counter is dropped with your souls and must be recovered from the bloodstain. Keeping most of the supply in item form limits what one failed recovery can cost. Convert the amount needed for the next deliberate action instead of opening the whole stack.
Understand the Estus tiers
A normal unkindled bonfire refills five Estus charges. Kindling raises that bonfire’s refill amount in steps of five. The initial limit is ten; the Rite of Kindling obtained from Pinwheel permits fifteen and twenty. The upgrade belongs to the individual bonfire, so improving one stop does not increase the refill at every other fire.
Choose the fire that serves your route
Kindle near a boss approach or a stretch of exploration that repeatedly exhausts healing. Fire Keeper bonfires already provide ten charges, making the Firelink starting supply particularly useful. Kindling persists through death and into New Game Plus. Estus strength is a separate upgrade from the number of charges, handled through a Fire Keeper and a Fire Keeper Soul.
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